The mistake people make is buying something decorative for someone living in a 12-by-14 room with three other people's stuff already in it. The gifts that land are the ones that solve an annoying daily problem — a lamp that doesn't require an overhead light, a charger that handles everything at once, a water bottle they won't lose in a lecture hall. Under $50, nothing sentimental.
“The one reliable rule of gift-giving: anything that makes them look more serious at what they love will be received with disproportionate gratitude.”
Friends claim items. No duplicates. No awkward conversations.



